When The Storm Finally Comes...

When a gentle south wind began to blow, they thought they had obtained what they wanted; so they weighed anchor and sailed along the shore of Crete.  Before very long, a wind of hurricane force, called the "northeaster," swept down from the island.  The ship was caught by the storm and could not head into the wind; so we gave way to it and were driven along.  As we passed to the lee of a small island called Cauda, we were hardly able to make the lifeboat secure.  When the men had hoisted it aboard, they passed ropes under the ship itself to hold it together.  Fearing that they would run aground on the sandbars of Syrtis, they lowered the sea anchor and let the ship be driven along.  We took such a violent battering from the storm that the next day they began to throw the cargo overboard.  On the third day, they threw the ship's tackle overboard with their own hands.  When neither sun nor stars appeared for many days and the storm continued raging, we finally gave up all hope of being saved.

After the men had gone a long time without food, Paul stood up before them and said: "Men, you should have taken my advice not to sail from Crete; then you would have spared yourselves this damage and loss.  But now I urge you to keep up your courage, because not one of you will be lost; only the ship will be destroyed.  Last night an angel of the God whose I am and whom I serve stood beside me and said, 'Do not be afraid, Paul.  You must stand trial before Caesar; and God has graciously given you the lives of all who sail with you.'  So keep up your courage, men, for I have faith in God that it will happen just as he told me.  Nevertheless, we must run aground on some island."  
Acts 27:13-26

Divorce has been the storm in my life.  The interesting thing is that I've had to go through it as a child watching helplessly as my parents divorced.  As a sibling while my only brother went through it and I was unable to convince them otherwise. Finally, I went through it myself and had to stand by as my ex-wife executed her freewill.

I've deliberately highlighted some words above that could easily be used in the storms of my life as well...

...they thought they obtained what they wanted...(divorce)
...before very long...(usually doesn't take long - whether they admit it or not)
...the ship was caught by the storm...(everyone was affected by the divorce, especially the children)
...hardly able to make a lifeboat secure...(trying to make deals to keep the marriage together)
...let the ship be driven along...(it takes on a life of it's own like a hurricane and wrecks havoc)
...a violent battering...(the divorce is relentless)
...throw the cargo overboard...(everything you worked for is lost)
...we finally gave up all hope of being saved...(the legal system is not a 'just' system)
...you should have taken my advice not to...(I even begged her not to go down this road)
...spared yourselves this damage and loss...(those who thought they got what they wanted are                         damaged and/or destroyed)
...ship will be destroyed...(marriage finally ended)
...an Angel of God...(finally a word of hope)
...do not be afraid...(the first thing Jesus says to those in a storm Mk5:36, Jn14:27, Rev1:17)
...keep up your courage...(there is a tomorrow)
...I have faith in God...(God can make something out of nothing)

Your life story is different than mine, maybe worse, maybe not as dramatic, but real and painful nonetheless.

It may be from a choice you made when you were younger, or maybe (like me) someone else made it and you couldn't persuade them to change their mind, so everyone suffers.

God is always there.  He is timeless and all powerful.  Yet even His will at times is not considered, and He has to let freewill have it's way in humanity or humans are reduced to something less than what we were created to be.

Paul urged the centurion and the sailors not to sail, yet they choose to regardless.  Paul was a prisoner and could not get off the ship, so he had to endure what the others choices were.  Paul never gave up, he obviously kept praying and seeking God otherwise he may have not seen the angel of the Lord and not gotten the words of encouragement.

We also may not be able to "get off this ride" but we can also choose not give up.  We can keep praying and seeking God.  You never know when God is going to break through into the storm of your life and tell you when it's over.

I recall some words of a song "the ship is battered, the sails are torn, yet the anchor holds..."

Let Jesus Christ be your anchor, let Him be your safe harbor or anchor and hold you during those times of trouble, through the storms of life.

What MOVES You?

You have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes... 
Song of Songs 4:9b

Would you move more than fourteen thousand kilometers away from your home?  What if it was in a different hemisphere?  You have lived your whole life in a certain culture, life style, and standard of living.  Would you do it for a job?  A change of pace and see something different of the world?  Maybe an opportunity to make a difference in someones life?  Now would you do it if it meant possibly never going back to what you have always known?  This move I'm talking about is going to change your life forever.

I met Shelley in such a unique way.  No we weren't high school sweethearts, we didn't meet at a sports club or at church.

Of seven billion people living on earth today.  More than the majority have computers or access to computers and the internet.

I had just been in a car accident only a week prior and I was at the library working on accessing things on my relatively new iphone.  An advertisement came up on the computer offering to meet new Christian friends.  It was a free trial offer for a week, all they wanted was my email and some information that I might like to share about myself for others to read and choose if they would like to talk.  Of the other seven billion people in the world there was a woman in South Africa that somehow ended up seeing that same advertisement at the same time.  We both took a chance and answered the invitation.  Three days later I was going through my morning routine and was checking my computer and saw that someone in S.A. had looked at my online profile in Canada...little did I know that clicking on her profile was going to change my life forever.  Because when I did and saw Shelley's picture...You have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes

At first I thought she must have clicked my  picture by accident.  I didn't care, I had to speak to her, even if we were a world apart.  I had to draw her attention to this fact but it didn't seem to be an issue with her.  I love that about my wife Shelley, there is no mountain to big, no ocean wide enough, if God is in it then anything is possible...she stole my heart.

We would write to eachother every day.  Then we took the big step of talking on the phone and the sound of her voice would just drew me in to her even more.  The things we would talk about resonated with me.  To this day her voice is the sexiest I have ever heard and ever want to hear for the rest of my life.  Not long after we took another big step and began to skype, I noticed she has the most dainty hands and fingers, her eyes are hazel and framed with by her beautiful long dark brown hair...she stole my heart.

About three months after we first made contact I flew to meet her in S.A. and it was during that three week visit I asked Shelley to marry me.  I want to live the rest of my life with her.  My heart belongs to her.  I felt like God has ordained us to be together and...she stole my heart.

Well, this blog is for the glory of God.  I want people to read His words and be inspired to live for Him, be devoted to Him and love Him more.  If I can do that by telling you a very short version of my story, how Shelley and I came to be married, then I'm happy to do that.  Also I can't help but tell everyone how much I love her.  I don't take her for granted and I know I have so much to work on myself but I'm willing to do it because she is worth it and ...Shelley has stolen my heart.

Please pray for us.

Please pray for this blog to go out and accomplish what God wants to do with it.

Please pray for your own marriages, your own husband or wife, and let them exclusively own your heart.  I'm praying for you, Jesus and Jeff.